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GRATITUDE: "Appreciation Matters" w/ Shelbyville Mayor, Jeff Johnson
GRATITUDE: "Appreciation Matters" w/ Shelbyville Mayor, Jeff Johnson
Ryan Scott
Monday, November 05, 2018

GRATITUDE: “Appreciation Matters”

Main Street & Kindergarten Center is focusing on GRATITUDE as our November Character Trait. This goes well with the tradition of Thanksgiving & also the respect for Veterans’ Day. We will model Gratitude & explicitly teach while reinforcing with a focus. Ironically, we express Gratitude for students showcasing Gratitude for peers and others. This November character trait Focus on Gratitude is sponsored by Monicals’ Pizza & Mark Shanks of Shelbyville.

To “kick-off” this Character Trait focus, Shelbyville Alumni & Mayor, Jeff Johnson, spoke to all (1st – 3rd) students on Monday, November 5th w/ two sessions.

He did not realize in the moments how much these experiences influenced his development and how much he would benefit from them in his life. As he reflects now, he really has a deep appreciation and feels moved to show his appreciation for “how they shaped him.” This is why he wanted to become mayor: to give back to the community.

Mayor Johnson then asked students to think of people or experiences they are thankful for. He gave some time for auditory processing and reflection. The, he prompted a few student-leaders to share. The students identified family, pets and experiences. The mayor admitted that during times of sorrow or conflict, etc… it is difficult to control your mindset and focus on positive and what really thankful for but it can be powerful.

He asked students to “do him a favor.” He wants them to tell someone thank you and why every day. This will have a positive effect on the other individual but there is a positive effect for them as well and the relationships they grow. This is good for any family or team or community.

This is an important message for our students to understand the power of gratitude as returning kindness with a positive attitude. We discuss and practice with the students expressing gratitude. Gratitude is most effective when it is specific & timely. This means that commenting on a peer’s lunchbox does not have the effect that “I thought we made a good team during math groups today; Thank You.” does.

We also discuss the phenomena that there are multiple “Languages of Appreciation” based on a book by Dr. Gary Chapman. We change the terms to be more student-friendly but “Words of Affirmation” are specific praises that encourage others & let them know they are valued. They can be private or public. The words may be typed such as an email but a hand-written letter is more personal. A Hallmark card might have a great message but the personal note in the card is impactful. “Acts of Service” is when we do things for others such as emptying the dishwasher just so your parents do not have to. “Tangible Gifts” is when you provide home-made, sentimental, or monetary items. “Quality Time” is when you just purposefully make time to spend with someone or even just giving them focused attention. “Physical Touch” can be appropriate when it is something like a high-five or a fist-bump or meaningful handshake. These show appreciation and add to the camaraderie. 

Thank you, Shelbyville Mayor, Jeff Johnson.